I took the ssd1306 code and modified it to work with the ssd1351. I don't know what FPS it can hit, looks like its well over 30fps.
Feel free to use it:
https://github.com/jamesoncollins/gauge_driver/blob/master/cubeide_proj/ugfx/drivers/gdisp/SSD1351/gdisp_lld_SSD1351.c